You've seen the meme. I've spotted it over and over again. "I play favorites", or something to that effect.
It goes on to list what makes someone the coaches favorite. That they work hard, show up on time, do all the "right stuff", etc.
Two days ago, bundled up for a frigid run with my wife, I found myself thinking about my upcoming podcast interview with Bob Bowman. There’s definitely not a meme out there where a woman wonders what her silent husband is thinking about, and it turns out it’s chatting up the coach of two of the greatest swimmers in the history of the sport.